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In This Issue: Issue 408 -- May 13, 2008 
•   A Minute with Dan
•   3. 48 Days Online Radio
•   1. You Might be a Sluggard if….
•   4. 48 Days Recommends
•   2. “It’s Hard to Sing the Blues When You’re Doing So Well”
•   5. Humor -- Keep Dreaming
A Minute with Dan
Joanne and I had a wonderful time in Florida this last week. We spoke, discussed plans with new friends, and did several No More Mondays interviews. Even when life is good, there is something refreshing about just getting away for a few days. A break in schedule seems to awaken parts of our brains that can become dormant and pretty predictable otherwise.

Many of you are anticipating vacations in the next couple of months. Expect to wake up some of your dreams – and to rekindle the most important relationships in your life.

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"Excellence can be obtained if you:
...care more than others think is wise;
...risk more than others think is safe;
...dream more than others think is practical;
...expect more than others think is possible.””


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1. You Might be a Sluggard if….
The dictionary defines a “sluggard” as a habitually inactive or lazy person. Here’s an example. My wife Joanne is mentoring a young lady who just got out of prison. While incarcerated, a grandmother cared for her 4-yr-old daughter. This gal counted the days until she could be reunited with her precious little girl. Three weeks after she was released she was told that the father of the child wanted full custody. It seemed odd that he was unwilling to care for his child while the mother was in prison – and now he has a sudden desire to be the sole caretaker.

However, the rest of the story soon came out. He has discovered that if can get custody of this little girl, he will receive free housing, food stamps and a monthly stipend. He can totally remove himself from having to work, and can live the life he has apparently dreamed of. I’d call this guy a sluggard.

I have three questions:

1. What motivates a person to stoop this low, in using an innocent child as a ploy for personal gain?

2. What has to happen to a person to give up on this level – to decide that a meager handout is better than the wide-open opportunities we all have in front of us? And thus deprive oneself of the incredible satisfaction of meaningful, purposeful and profitable work?

3. How have we as a society allowed this kind of option to even be made available?

The Biblical Proverbs are full of interesting descriptions of the “sluggard.”

To see the telltale signs and tell me how you deal with the "sluggards" you meet, read on here: Sluggard

Check here to see if you're a sluggard

2. “It’s Hard to Sing the Blues When You’re Doing So Well”
I just received news that Gospel Legend Dottie Rambo was killed in a tour bus accident last Sunday morning. En route to a Mother’s Day concert in Texas, the 74-yr-old was the only fatality in the crash just outside Mount Vernon, Missouri.

Through the course of her career, Dottie wrote more than 2,500 published songs, including the classics "We Shall Behold Him” and “I Go to the Rock,” which was recorded by Whitney Houston in the 1996 movie The Preacher's Wife. Singers including Elvis Presley, Johnny Cash, Barbara Mandrell and Larry Gatlin recorded Rambo’s songs.

A couple of years ago, Joanne and I had the pleasure of hearing and meeting Dottie at a local luncheon. After listening to one of her more recent compilations, I was attracted to this title: “It’s Hard to Sing the Blues When You’re Doing So Well.” It reminded me that some people just seem to take pride in doing poorly so they can keep singing the blues. You know the kind—the ones you hate to ask “How are you doing?” because you’re afraid they’ll tell you. Some of these people wouldn’t have anything to talk about if they were not complaining, accusing, blaming, and finger-pointing. Yes, and I do see people who sabotage their own success—apparently convinced
that failure is easier to handle.

Dottie never seemed to get mired down in her own challenges she faced along the way. Personally, I like Dottie's encouragement to move beyond singing the blues. Our sympathies go out to her family – but we’re also confident she’s singing with new enthusiasm in heaven today.

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3. 48 Days Online Radio
Each week I create a new online radio podcast — that you can hear in iTunes or at the 48 Days Online Radio Show link below.


Lots of interesting questions were submitted this week -- like these:

1. I am stuck in my career. 5 years ago when I finished college all the employers I applied with told me I had no experience. Well after 5 years of working jobs to survive, I am still told I don’t have enough experience when I apply for jobs. I have changed my resume to show areas of skills but can't seem to catch a break. What else can I do?

2. I'm interested in pursuing self-employment, and I want to talk to real entrepreneurs before I make a firm commitment. How do I find these people? I grew up in a home that valued science and education - I know where to look for scientists, engineers, teachers and the like. I've spent 10 years in corporate finance, and I know how to find other bean counters. Can you please provide some suggestions about where entrepreneurs and the self employed are likely to be found?

3. My wife has recently started a transcription business. Since 1099 work is new to her (us), can you recommend any resources (web or printed material) for 1099 "dummies" in the area of self-employment taxes, deductions or other practical suggestions that I am sure we are overlooking? This business is currently supplemental income as the majority of our household earnings come from my salary as a pastor.

4. I have decided to follow my dream of being an artist. I already have plans made that includes an ebay store. At the moment my biggest problem is my own procrastination. How can I conquer this problem I'm having?

5. Why are you not using talkshoe.com or some other system to stream your show live and/or accept audience calls?

6. I am 25 and currently have a bachelor of fine arts degree with an emphasis in painting. After two years out of school I have not acquired a "real job." I currently teach yoga and work as a server. I am contemplating going back to school to become an occupational therapy assistant but I am hesitant because I am still paying back student loans from my first degree. I would enjoy the security of a 9 to 5 with benefits but in the end I just want to help people.

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5. Humor -- Keep Dreaming
The school of agriculture's dean of admissions was interviewing a prospective student.

"Why are you choosing agriculture as your career?" he asked.

"I dream of making a million dollars in farming, like my father," the student replied.

"Your father made a million dollars in farming?" echoed the very impressed dean.

"No," replied the applicant. "But he always dreamed of it."

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Yeah -- that's my 1937 Allis Chalmers B in the photo. I'm still a farm kid at heart - just don't have any illusions of making money from that.

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